How One Mom Transformed Her Life Through Faith and Community

Introduction

As podcasters, we often find ourselves on a journey of discovery, not just for our listeners, but for ourselves as well. Recently, I had the privilege of sitting down with Tanya Davis, a life coach and founder of Butterfly Rising Institute, who shared her inspiring story of transformation from a struggling single mom to a powerful advocate for solo parents.

The Unexpected Journey of Solo Parenthood

Tanya's story begins like many others - with an unexpected pregnancy during her senior year of college. Despite pressure to take "alternative routes," she chose to embrace motherhood while pursuing her education. However, the reality of solo parenting hit hard when she found herself alone, struggling to make ends meet.

"I went to the building to get governmental assistance... They turned me away because I made $4 over the limit. I just went to the lobby and cried and just realized, wow, I'm really in this by myself."

This moment of clarity became a turning point for Tanya. She realized that she had to dig deep, find her inner strength, and forge a path forward for herself and her son.

From Struggle to Strength: The Power of Faith and Community

Tanya's journey wasn't just about overcoming financial hardships. It was also about finding faith and building a supportive community. She shared how joining a church when her son was two years old became a pivotal moment in her life.

"I said, I can't do this on my own. How is it that you can best help me? How is it that I can pour into whatever kingdom it is that you have me to serve?"

This decision to seek help and embrace faith became the foundation for Tanya's transformation. She found strength not just in her own prayers, but in the prayers and support of others around her.

The Importance of a Support System

Tanya emphasized the value of having a circle of supportive women in her life. From her sorority sisters to her church community, these relationships provided emotional support, practical help, and spiritual guidance.

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Embracing Change: From Corporate America to Life Coach

As Tanya navigated the challenges of single motherhood and a career in corporate America, she realized the need for change. Drawing on her background in auditing, accounting, and change management, she developed a systematic approach to transforming her life.

"I took these different change management principles and what we call an A3, which is nine simple boxes on an A3 sheet of paper, and you map out what is it that you want to do."

This methodical approach to personal growth became the foundation for Tanya's work as a life coach and the creation of Butterfly Rising Institute.

The Birth of Butterfly Rising Institute

Tanya's personal experiences and professional skills converged in the creation of Butterfly Rising Institute, an organization dedicated to empowering single moms. The institute focuses on providing a safe space for solo parents, teaching communication skills, and helping women implement positive changes in their lives.

Breaking the Stigma

One of Tanya's key missions is to eliminate the shame often associated with single motherhood. She encourages women to be open about their experiences and to advocate for themselves in the workplace and beyond.

"I want to be able to get rid of that shame to where you can have that open, transparent conversation at your employer, at your place of work to say, okay, this is who I am, and this is how we can meet each other's needs."

Lessons for Solo Moms Looking to Make an Impact

As solo moms, Tanya's story offers valuable insights for our own journeys:

• Embrace authenticity: Sharing real, vulnerable stories can create powerful connections with others.
• Find your unique angle: Tanya combined her corporate background with her personal experiences to create a unique approach to coaching.
• Build a supportive community: Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals can provide inspiration and support for your single mom journey.
• Take it one step at a time: Just as Tanya advises solo moms, remember that raising successful children is a journey of small, consistent steps.

Moving Forward with Purpose

Tanya's journey from struggling single mom to empowered coach and advocate is a testament to the power of perseverance, faith, and community. Her story reminds us that our challenges can become our greatest strengths and that our experiences can be powerful tools for helping others.

As we continue our journeys, let's take inspiration from Tanya's example. Let's strive to create a life that not only strengthen but also empowers and uplifts our children and others. After all, isn't that the true power of parenting - raising successful and well-adjusted children?

To learn more about Tanya Davis and Butterfly Rising Institute, visit butterflyrisinginstitute.com or follow them on Instagram at @BTRfly_Rise.

Remember, your story matters. Your voice matters. Keep sharing, keep growing, and keep rising, just like a butterfly.

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